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Sean Murphy's avatar

I was taught to judge the quality of a decision based on the state of information available before the commitment, time, effort, and other resources. I view a decision as the irrevocable commitment of resources and don't view decisions as "reversible" in that all come with a cost. Was the outcome reasonably foreseeable, and was the harm intended, not considered, or part of an effort to stabilize or reverse a dangerous or deteriorating situation?

Challenges remain: how do you help people who are making decisions without regard to the long-term consequences? How do you ensure that the help you provide will actually improve the situation? How do you respect their agency and free will?

I think meditation helps detect self-deception. It enables me to realize how I contribute to my own problems and make life harder for others. One prayer I have found helpful is "Lord Jesus Christ, Son of God, have mercy on me, a sinner." It reminds me that we are all made from crooked timber

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David Maren's avatar

Ego is also a huge part of the equation. When someone else experiences misfortune, thinking they "deserved" it makes us feel better about ourselves, that our superiority allowed us to escape that fate. But when we experience misfortune, we're more likely to blame it on bad luck to soothe our ego.

Overvaluing luck is very risky because it can lead to a defeatist mindset. Most people underestimate how much power they have over their own lives and overestimate how much power other people have — primarily politicians.

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